1) Tenaciousness is a
skill. What are the behaviors that you have used (or developed) to keep up with
the requirements of this course?
Honestly, this class seems like a bunch of busy work to get
us into the habit of taking action. I think this is a good and bad thing. Bad
in the sense that it’s difficult to organize from a time management perspective
with working a 50+ hour a week job and taking two other classes (possibly my
own oversight for taking on more than I could handle) which are only test
based, meaning I have to stay diligent about keeping up with them while
navigating the busy work of this class. As far as the busy work being good, it’s
definitely a lesson taken from everyday life: You are always going to have
little fires to put out (these assignments) on a daily basis that can easily
distract you from the larger, more important things. I would say that I’ve already
learned this lesson and didn’t necessarily need to re-learn it, but I suppose
it is a good skill for others to pick up on during their time in college.
2) Tenaciousness is
also about attitude. Talk about a moment or two when you felt like "giving
up." What pulled you through? Do you feel like you've developed a
tenacious attitude during the past two months? What experience or experiences
most contributed to this?
To be frank, numbing myself to the expectations of this
class has gotten me through. I’ve turned it into a routine when I get home from
work each day and it is my top priority where I don’t think about it – I just
do it and get it done with. Prior to
this class, I was already pretty tenacious, and I think the only thing the
class has done for me is reminded me that I’m still capable of prioritizing my
workload.
3) Three tips. What
are three tips you would offer next semester's student about (1) fostering the
skills that support tenacity and (2) developing the 'tenacious mindset' ?
1) Pay attention to your other classes: Read 7 Habits of
Highly Effective people and learn how to schedule your day and your personal
mission statement. You’ll learn about the Important/Urgent grid and where we
need to operate as opposed to where we currently operate. It will teach you to
align your perspective with your ultimate goal rather than the little obstacles
in the way on a daily basis that really aren’t that important. It is easy to
let your other lectures go unnoticed until you’re cramming the weekend before
the test (especially if you’re working full time like I am). Get ahead of your
schedule and own it rather than letting your schedule own you.
2) Don’t think about it – just do it: It’s easy to psyche
yourself out over doing the assignments (cold approaches for customer
interviews, finding entrepreneurs that you would like to mentor you, etc). Don’t
think about all the things that could go wrong – just approach them and get
their feedback whether it’s positive or negative.
3) People don’t care about you, only what you can offer:
This probably sounds harsh, but you need to check your ego at the door. These assignments
aren’t about you – they’re about the customer and finding value to provide to
them. They don’t care if your rent payment is due – they need value in order to
trade their money (which is essentially their time).
Hi Shane. Wow, you really spoke your mind which I do have to say I agree with a lot of it. I am also working full time and have a family to take care of while taking another class so I get it. I think Dr. Pryor's objective is to get us out there and use to speaking to people in general. I have met a lot of college kids coming straight out of school who think they are entitled to a manager job or some high paying position because they have their masters degree. Half of them can't write a decent email or speak in front of an audience. So I think this is good in that aspect as well as what you said about taking action and really just being responsible with your work.
ReplyDeleteI read the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People and think that was a great tip for other students.
Here is my half way reflection blog.
http://ctaylornewsblog.blogspot.com/2016/02/half-way-reflection.html
Shane, I enjoyed reading your reflection of the class thus far. I agree with many of your points, especially with the busy work aspect. I also think it was awesome you included to read and to just do it! Good luck with the rest of your semester! You can see my half way reflection here:
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